I'm based in Clinton, CT and sail on Long Island Sound. The area has tides, currents, and even waves (though not really big ones). The DS came with an electric trolling motor which just isn't powerful enough. Multiple times, I've had to fight my way back to the dock against the tide and/or current and haven't made headway. This is a safety issue, as I regularly take out friends and want my little boy to be able to join us too. Waiting for the tide to turn isn't an option - especially if a storm kicks up.
The factors I'm considering in choosing an outboard are power, weight, and length. I'm not considering used 2-strokes; safety and reliability are the overriding concerns (besides, I paid $500 for the DS & trailer so can afford to splurge on the engine

O'Day recommends a long shaft, so unless anyone can convince me otherwise I'm going with that. Power is a little trickier. Some folks on this forum and others seem to think 2.5hp will be adequate. I'm skeptical for my conditions - and adequate isn't good enough in this case. I need to have power in reserve in case we ever need it. I'm thinking a minimum of 3.5hp would be better; but how much do I really need?
Weight, of course, is the other part of the equation. How much will start to impact sailing performance? Typically there will be two adults in the boat, 400 lbs max total. Add in a couple of kids and maybe we'll be pushing 600 lbs. Factoring in an outboard, will an additional 30 lbs on the transom be a problem? How about 40, or 60 (the largest outboard I would consider @6hp)?
My inclination - if no one at all has any feedback on this post, which I hope isn't the case! - would be to go with a 3.5hp 4-stroke Nissan long shaft weighing in at 43 lbs. But like I said, I'd like to hear what you all think.
Thanks in advance for any and all feedback.
Alan
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