Need help choosing a boat

I am looking to buy a small sailboat and could use some help choosing the right boat. I need a boat that I can use as a sail trainer for my kids (currently 7 and 10 years old), small enough that they can reasonably handle with assistance, yet big enough (and stable enough) that I can feel safe about them sailing it. I'd like it to be big enough that our family of four can occasionally all go out for a short sail, but I think mostly myself and one of the kids will be the full crew. Racing is not a priority at all, but I would like a boat with spirited enough performance that it won't be boring for me to sail. So far, my top two choices for boats are the Daysailer and the Flying Scot. Any advice from you folks who actually know these boats?
David Blakey (dblakey-at-chkd.com)
David Blakey (dblakey-at-chkd.com)