With sailing you have "access to the water" as another issue.
And yes, there's the thing that some people don't see the fun in competition for competition's sake, while others do.
I certainly didn't for the longest time, until one day I decided otherwise. I lucked into a nice group of sailors (none of them sailing a DS) and have been sailing a variety of boats in friendly competitions (some more formally organized than others). Instead of subtracting from sailing as a way to "get away from it all" for a sunny afternoon, it turned out that having a regular evening to go out really helped me go out more out of my boat, and helped me to not try to cherry pick the weather window so much that all the challenge went out of it.
Just a few weeks ago I sailed a small regatta in pouring rain and building winds (both expected before we set out), which turned out to be lots of fun partially because of shared misery (actually good rain gear helped a lot).
Having a community of sailors gave me a totally different access to experience - much appreciated and I keep learning, which is a big part of what keeps me engaged in sailing as an outdoor activity - I don't want to call it sport, somehow, because that implies competition for competition's sake to me. So the forum isn't my only and not even primary source of how-to information like it used to be not so many years ago. But it's fun to revisit topics with a different perspective from the first time around.
I think I needed the space to figure the basics out on my own, without the feeling of having them "handed to me". I can sense that spirit is alive here on the site. Now, with that behind me, I'm much more receptive to gleaning tricks from others - even if it can feel like there's so much more to learn that I really haven't left square one yet. For many of you who have read my posts that may sound surprising, but the fun part about sailing is that it's not all that hard to get into, but you take forever to really master it.
In all this, I haven't lost my interest in sailing in more open waters and longer distances. And have discovered that more boats on the same venture can mean more fun. I envy those here on the forum who have been able to set up group daysails. Closest I have come is mixed fleets.
Anyway, my take, when I started this thread, is that I see definite signs of a perking up of interest in small boat sailing, but not necessarily in traditional fleets. The DSA reports fleets are shrinking and that's probably true in many classes. So the traditional model doesn't work. But having an organization like the DSA is an anchor that does allow community to form. What would it take to make the organization more responsive to "non-traditional" and "non-formal" ways of sailing, so that we can enjoy the fun and benefits that come when others share our "sport" - and not just in the sense of having someone to beat in a race
